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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you for the varied viewpoints. DH and I spoke at length today. I actually reached out here because as a non-smoker, I'm trying to understand. I understand there are health benefits for many things, that being said, we would both prefer to get that medical advice from our doctor for obvious reasons. DH's personality has not changed, so I'm not concerned his use is heavy, and he expressed its very occasional. He also admitted he's worried about his health issues (cholesterol and BP med side effects) and some significant allergy problems and wants to get a handle on that before adding an additional thing into the mix. He actually expressed he has gone in phases over the years, where he smoked, and then got sick if it and stopped. I told him I was more upset with him sneaking, and that I'd try to be more open minded but the sneaking had to stop. Despite the fact that numerous posters seemed to jump all over me for my feelings, we had a very calm, non- confrontational conversation. [/quote]
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