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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost a year. When we first met, I was upfront that I didn’t want want the repsonukitu of raising children. She was onboard, and said she has come to realize she wanted to remain childless. The other night I felt something had been bothering her, and she tearfully told me [b]she realizes she wants to be a kid,[/b] but she’s afraid that will mean we won’t be together. I haven’t changed my mind. It’s tough because we just talked about getting engaged and moving in together. She’s the first woman I’ve ever felt that I could see myself spending my life with. We just work so well together, and it hurts that we will breakup. She said she doesn’t want to lose me, or make the decision, so I feel like the decision is left to me. I don’t want her to regret us, but I don’t want to lose her either. I feel I’m left to be the bad guy. I’ve never wanted kids, and I won’t change my mind, or have a child just to please her. I’m upset and don’t know what to do. [/quote]

That's one kink I wouldn't be able to handle. I don't blame you for bailing. [/quote]

Have you told her WHY you don't want kids?  If you do that, it should help facility the breakup. This is clearly not a shared value or desired same life experience. [/quote]

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