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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once entitlement enters the conversation, there’s a major problem already.

It goes beyond consent.

If my partner does not enthusiastically share his or her body with me, there is a problem. But there is also a problem if I prize my own sexual gratification above my partner’s ownership of his or her body and enthusiasm to share it with me.

My grandmother taught me to never eat a meal cooked with resentment. I’ve applied the same to sex. I offered duty sex in my first marriage. When I divorced, I decided I would never do that again. My second marriage is much happier. In part because sex is not a currency or commodity.[/quote]

So, you found someone with a similar drive. Good [/quote]

It was never a drive issue. I became repulsed by my first H for a variety of reasons. It’s one thing to have no drive and turn down your spouse. It’s another thing to yearn for pleasure and then have your flesh creep at someone’s touch. I even tried getting drunk to get through duty sex. Toward the end, I think he got off on seeing how revolted, sad, and frustrated I was. My not wanting to refuse him sex have him a terrible power over me. [/quote]

Glad that you were both able to move on. [/quote]

+1 and it sounds like your grandma was very wise and taught you well![/quote]

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