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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your husband might be acting like a jerk, but I'm in his situation in my marriage, and boy, it is freaking hard. As in, we don't have kids and I don't know if we are going to make it hard. Because, yes, he's in treatment and has been for awhile now, but there were a lot of years when he wasn't and that did some damage. And, now, even with treatment, he is just not available for me as an emotional support. [b]His issues ALWAYS come first [/b]because while I am capable of just sucking things up and moving on, he is not. And, it is just wearing and literally impacts every area of our married life. I would give just about anything to have a spouse I could count on to take care of me and pay attention to what I need like I do for him, just for a little while.[/quote]

THAT is one of the biggest problems in dealing with an adult with these kinds of never ending issues.  Their problems become all consuming and then you feel like you don't have anyone to turn to with your own issues.  If she can't even handle her own, she sure isn't capable, or even interested in helping me with mine.  It sucks the life out oa a realtionship and gets really exhausting.[/quote]

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