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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are a lot of flavors of nonmonogamy.  Sounds like you are "monogamish" (flings outside of a central core partnership) and she might be full on polyamorous (multiple partners with varying levels of romantic, sexual and logistical entanglements)

Neither is right or wrong,  but you better get on the same page.

It sounds like you need to sit down with her and talk about YOUR connection.  Let her know that you miss weekends away with her.   You you miss the sexual connection (assuming you've been turned down more often than the day you mentioned she had a date with Joe later...) try to focus the conversation entirely on what is currently not working for you and don't bring up Joe at all.  Otherwise you'll sound whiny.

Say, honey, I miss weekends away with you.  I know Labor day is out, but can we plan a few tonight for just us?

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Thanks, this is the best response/advice that I have received. I think you are right about the different levels. In the beginning it was just flings for her as well and I never realized that she just looks at this ad an extension of what we have done in the past and what was acceptable.

Our relationship sexually and otherwise has had no problems except where he is concerned and he just seems like an obstacle tk our "normal" way of life. [/quote]

this won't work, she no longer respects you that's pretty clear. You made the mistake of letting her open her end of the marriage. Any sane person would see this happening[/quote]

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