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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if you are a good man, you will not have a problem finding a mate once divorced. [/quote]

OP here... I'm not scared of divorce... I just havn't decided I want one. I'm comfortable at home. I like waking up each morning to the kids being there. And we share finances and house chores well... just no intimacy in it, which is something I seem to desire and she does not. The question was (still is)... Does one continue to see a spouse who has given up on intimacy completely as a partner in this field, and should they (I actually) share feelings and information when I know they are not likely to lead to any progress in this area of the relationship?[/quote]

Dude, the way you write about her is seething with contempt and a desire to control. Its not sadness from a loss of connection but rather contempt that you don't have access to what you think is your due that emanates from your posting. It's impossible to know whether this feeling about her/your relationship came before or after she stopped having sex with you, but I suspect before, probably it became less frequent and then when she felt this anger coming from you it killed it all the way. Women don't want to sleep with their husbands out of a sense of duty or obligation, and nothing kills the libido more than a man who clearly doesn't even like you anymore and sees you as a obstacle to his happiness, yet wants to get his rocks off and feels like you owe him. No thanks. [/quote]

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