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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They did not become entitled and disrespectful overnight. You cultivated this over many many years OP. It’s fine to call a family meeting and introduce new household rules, but don’t expect them to be mind readers. You have enabled them for a long time.[/quote] This. It's fine to start trying to raise them properly now, but they're basically already raised so you might not be able to do much to influence their world view. I would just tell them that "things aren't working for your father and I, the way they are." and propose a few solutions and let them choose - e.g. they move out within the next couple weeks and understand that your house is YOUR house and they aren't entitled to it and everything in it anymore, i.e. they will be guests and behave as such, or they start paying rent plus there are some house rules, etc etc. You aren't doing them any favors right now.[/quote]
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