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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is very different than if it was a woman saying she was leaving her marriage. Read a few of those threads to get a less sexist view and more balanced responses.

There were a couple threads recently about woman leaving marriages when their kids were teens. Most posters supported the women in leaving.[/quote]

I realize and appreciate that.  But I asked for people’s opinions and I am reading their responses.  I may not agree with 100% of what they write.. but someone may point out something that I have not thought of... [/quote]

I recall that the threads about women all involved on-going verbal abuse by the H. Not just coldness. [/quote]

My DW is not the nicest person to me.  Critical and negative feedback on things that just do not make sense.  There is emotional, verbal, and etc abuse.  DW is not a happy person.  The only joy they she seems to get is from her kids.  I asked and recommended but she will not seek help.  There are several things that I just can’t write because it may make it too easy for people that know us to recognize us.[/quote]

The real question is what are you doing to upset her and how are you making the relationship work.  You put 100% of the issues on her.  She is not happy for a reason and it is probably your behavior.  You need to make the effort first.[/quote]

DW has classic depression.  More so after her mom died.  She will not get help.  Seriously..How is that on me?[/quote]

Ok her Mom died, she is depressed. Can you not understand and empathize with her loss? You sound really cold and withholding? Perhaps couples counseling first?[/quote]
Are f-Ing kidding me?  It has been over 10 years and my DW will not get help. I am cold and withholding?  That is on me? F Off [/quote]
OP, this is not the board to get help from. It’s overwhelmed by psycho women that always want to paint themselves as the victim and that men as always the evil villain that never tried hard enough. It will never not be your fault here. To get an appropriate perspective that will help your kids succeed, see a family therapist that specializes in divorce. You’ll get unbiased feedback from them. I wish you much luck on your journey and however it ends.[/quote]

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