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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Impossible to tell based on what you've written, OP.  I don't think there's anything wrong with someone wanting individual time with family members and friends. You don't have to be constantly joined at the hip as a couple.  And he's clearly not hiding you from his family, since he invites you when they are in town, and you go to visit them together.

My only concern here is that he brushed off your feelings and made a pretty obviously insensitive statement ("my family comes first!")  Does he minimize your feelings or make insensitive statements often? Or have you been over-dramatizing this in a way that makes him make unreasonable statements? That's really the more important thing here.  [/quote]

This. The appropriate response is to still get what he wants most of the time and compromise and invite you some times. But also say, "hey, my mom is coming in town tomorrow. I want to get lunch with just her, but you want to come hang with us later?"[/quote]

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