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[quote=Anonymous]You and your ILs are being unreasonable. It is unreasonable to insist on taking someone's child to a different location against their wishes, I'm sorry. And OP, you are probably more anxious than you need to be...but your instinct that your kid will deal with the separation better in her own environment is probably true. A little grandparent spoiling and change of pace is fine...1 week in an unfamiliar place is hard for a 1y.o. with their parents. Have your ILs cared overnight for your kid before? All of that said, you are the parent...so your comfort level trumps your ILs'. If they won't care for your kid in the way you want, find someone else. There is no negotiating here, since they've already indicated they are unwilling to provide care in a manner you will be comfortable with.[/quote]
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