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[quote=Anonymous]OP, seriously, get someone in your life to be a professional touchstone. Someone removed from the situation who can tell you this is damaging and unhealthy -- if it is -- and help you figure out the next step forward. And I think you need to talk with someone else about what the legal process of separation and possible divorce would look like for you. Depression in men, for whatever reason, is often turned outward as anger and bitterness. If you are not making things better for him (or if he cannot see that you are), then your staying is not helping him, you, or the kid. Don't have an affair. Get yourself to a safe, quiet space where you can shut the door and breathe. Then you can think more clearly. For some that means a separation now, but maybe there is a friend or family member you can visit? Just to get away and think clearly? Good luck. As humans, we tend to make change only when it is more painful not to. Only you will know when you get there. [/quote]
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