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[quote=Anonymous]OP - this doesn't have to be fight or war. Notify your divorce attorney of the request to give a heads up. How far is the other city? You're they're father. The courts don't automatically make the mother the primary custodian just because she's the mom. Hear what she has to say - IF the discussion is about moving and wanting to take the kids then yes, I would move forward on changing the custodial agreement to you being the primary custodian to keep the kids stable and in the schools they are in - presuming your schedule allows for that in the best interest of the kids. Does your schedule allow for full time parenting? Can you additional support as needed for increased drop off/pick ups/extracurricular transportation? Make sure you've mapped this out and are prepared to provide to your attorney and possibly to a judge - if it comes to it. Not sure why everyone things this is a contentious situation - I know OP mentioned why they got divorced but he didn't really say that since then things have been bad in the co-parenting department. Best thing is to be prepared for everything and document everything. You can do this - and I hope that you can work this out with your ex so that kids can see that you can do this without fighting. Good luck.[/quote]
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