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[quote=Anonymous]I worked in a small daycare way back when and found toddlers absolutely EXHAUSTING. I sort of always planned to have kids but it gave me pause, and even up to the point where my daughter was here and crawling around, I was dreading her becoming a toddler. Imagine my shock when I found the toddler phase to be my favorite one yet! She is SO funny and adorable and quirky full of personality. I had no idea what a treat I was in for...so much so that we decided to have another. It really is different when they're your own kids. It's okay to decide you don't want kids, but don't base this whole decision on being tired of nannying (and your view of "what becomes of" parents is pretty doomsday / pessimistic. I'm not sure how you were talking to tons of parents of kids you nannies about their sex loves, but rest assured if it's a priority for you it's something you continue doing. And at the risk of blowing your mind, while yes it can be tough and all-consuming sometimes, the days are longg but the years are short - and raising our kids together has brought my husband and I much closer. They are freaking hilarious, and creating our own family together has been a journey (in the best of ways. And yes, despite having to wake up in the middle of the night for a few months initially, lol.)[/quote]
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