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[quote=Anonymous][quote] I was trying to keep this about the current dilemma but GF is generally quite guarded about her own life and also can be kind of tough in conversation. Honestly it's only recently dawned on me that apart from her general anxiety and tendency toward awkward comments (noted by not just us but all of DH's extended family) she actually might just really not like me, in particular. And/or might feel that all of the 5 (pretty normal in every way I can think of) grandkids are somehow "problem" children. [/quote] Well, it sounds like neither of you particularly like one another, but that doesn't really matter. You're adults, you have to deal with each other if you're going to go there to visit FIL. It sounds like her way of dealing with the fact that she doesn't like kids is to limit the amount of time that they spend in the house when you visit. That's not an entirely unreasonable solution. [/quote]
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