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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you can justify not visiting and having FIL visit more often. [b]It sounds like she has anxiety [/b]and/or doesn’t like kids, guessing a bit of both. The limited hours really sound like anxiety. It *also* sounds like she does all the work of hosting and not FIL, yes? That might be part of it. Talk with your DH: if he wants to speak up, he should, and regardless I think you stop visiting them as a family. [/quote]Yes, not sure what you should do but I don't think you should take this personally. There is something psychologically off with her. You don't have to accommodate it but I suspect it is not aimed specifically at you. I do feel sorry for your FIL, though, because I bet this puts real limits on his life in other ways besides family visits. I would encourage him to come visit you more often and give him some time free of his GF.[/quote]
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