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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t flame me, but my teen has started being openly defiant. I’ve already taken away his phone. That’s really the only thing he cares about. Now that I have the phone, I have no other leverage. For example, I ask him to pick up something that he left in the living room and he says, “No. It’s ok. I don’t need to do that right now.” And I say,”Yes. You do. I’m telling you to do it now.” And he just sits there. What do you do?[/quote] OMG OP listen to me, please--I had this issue. Don't go head-to-head like this! It totally backfires and GETS WORSE! (Trust me, I know). DCUM saved me, and here is my chance to pay it forward....buy this book, "Yes, Your Teen is Crazy!" right now on amazon. And the short story is you are still a good parent if you let him leave his crap all over the house and say nothing, and [b]pick it up yourself when he's not around. (I know, sounds totally wrong, but THIS will work. [/b] It's counter-intuitive)[/quote] This will work? How? He'll just laugh and let you keep doing all the work.[/quote]
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