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[quote=Anonymous]I'm not "stop traffic" gorgeous, but I'm an above-average attractive woman in a field that's almost all men (like it's weirder for me to not be the only woman in a room than the other way around). I also like fashion, and since I'm always going to stick out anyway...I just dress the way I feel like dressing which is pretty feminine. I'm also petite and look younger than my age. In my case, I've found that people don't always take me seriously...even compared to other women. They are more likely to assume I'm lost when I walk into a meeting than that I might even be the one running it. I don't know if this has helped me or hurt me in comparison to just being a woman in a male-dominated field...but I've learned to flip the script and sometimes use people's biases to my advantage. I.e., let them tell me things they think I wouldn't understand or catch them off guard by being much more knowledgeable about something than they expected (though given my job and background, they shouldn't be surprised).[/quote]
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