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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Welfare and food stamps on 72k? Who is fear mongering now. OP is not a victim.[/quote] For a two-person household in coastal California (where OP lives) that does qualify for state aid. In DC if you have a household of four people and an income of $100,000! or less you can qualify for subsidized housing. In other words, welfare and food stamps. [/quote] So wait with $72 k income op could get state aid? That’s way above the poverty line isn’t it? What would she qualify for?[/quote] It's not above the poverty line because of where she lives - the cost of living is too high. I don't know where on the coast but I'm betting its a major city with a father/sperm donor who makes 7-figures a year. If she lives in Los Angeles the average one-bedroom apartment is $2,100. With utilities at $200/month, gas/car expenses at $300/month, daycare and food at $1,000 (I halved it bcs maybe she has family that helps), and things like diapers/formula/clothing/healthcare - $300/month she is looking at $3,600/month in expenditures easily. That's $43,600 just to live her life. No extras. No vacations. No Starbucks coffee. And keep in mind that 20% of her paycheck is taken for taxes and SS. She literally is underwater in Los Angeles at $65,000 if even one item is more expensive than what I just stated. That's also not including the medical bills for birth and delivery. If she lives in San Francisco the average one-bedroom apartment is $3,500. You do the math. If she lives in San Mateo the average one-bedroom apartment is $2,600. Again. If San Mateo is the median average for finding a one-bedroom place to live on the coast in CA, then she's flat out of luck supporting herself AND a child - [img]http://www.sustainablesanmateo.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Household-Income-Needed-for-Annual-Housing-Costs-San-Mateo-County-2014.png[/img] This was four years ago. Four years ago a $80,000 income wasn't enough for a one-bedroom rental. [/quote]
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