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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a full time WOHM and it recently dawned on DH and me that we can afford to outsource more so therefore we should! No shame in that. Do what works for you. Serious question - [b]why are people pointing out that they are not "trophy wives"? Why would this change the situation?[/b] Is a trophy wife expected to demand more paid help as part of the deal or something? I'm not trying to be judgmental, I'm honestly curious why this distinction is meaningful in this conversation. [/quote] Because shallow, insecure people (usually women) want to try to justify their own miserable existence. Somehow, trying to label other women is what they "think" works for them. However, since they are still miserable, no matter what they label other women, I would say it definitely is not working. We all know one or two of these, and we all avoid them (but probably pretend to like them to their face, to avoid their toxic wrath). If you don't know anyone this shallow and insecure, be grateful - most of us have grown up, but one or two in every circle seems to have not. Be glad you are not socially stunted, stuck in high school! [/quote]
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