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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=cba]to all of the non-judgmental responses - thank you.

and to those who did judge - when your marriage goes through tough times i hope you make better choices than i did[/quote]

Uh, yeah.  My marriage went thru some super-tough times, and I managed not to cheat. It's not that hard.  I have kids.  I didn't want to take a financial hit.  I had a sexless marriage, and I still didn't cheat.  Instead, I was honest about what I needed in the marriage and after 2.5 years of trying to work it out unsuccessfully, I ended it with dignity.  Was it hard to divorce?  Sure.  But a whole heck of a lot easier than trying to resolve my problems by lying and cheating and losing my own self-respect.

You cheaters always think that your problem is worse than anyone else's, that it's so painful you are justified in doing anything to relieve that pain.  It's lame and narcissistic.[/quote]
Cheating is no worse than being the rejecting partner in a sexless marriage. For the same reasons sexless people choose to remain married to somebody they reject sex with, a normal libido partner might want to stay married (like you said: kids, finances) while meeting his/her normal sexual needs outside the marriage. Your judgement is just unwarranted.[/quote]

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