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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]By the way, ecstasy makes you love a barking dog. I highly doubt it indicated anything real he perceived. Your husband sounds like he is going through some sort of crisis. How old is he? We’re there other problems or things going on before this? Is there a major decision coming up, job change, move, did anyone die recently?[/quote]

He's 40. Is this a midlife crisis?  I despise him for putting me through this.

No changes, no deaths, nothing.

He agrees that the ecstasy was a "chemical" love but he says that it is highly addictive and because he did it with her, he's addicted to her even though she had so many issues.  He never felt that way with me.[/quote]

Of course he didn’t - he wasn’t high.

You are his safe space. Something had him freaking out. Maybe it’s turning 40 and feeling like he doesn’t have control of his life. I’d you love him, and want it to work, remind him that you are willing to change together. That if he wants space, you respect it, but isn’t things need to change in how you two live your married life for the next 40 years, that’s fine too. You might have to save him from himself again if he is coping with feelings that he has surprised forever around her, his mom, you. She is an illusion. She is married right? Did they recently see each other? Do you think he is telling you everything? You didn’t know about the ecstasy before, but he is bringing up something from many years ago now... for what reason?

It didn’t “just hit him”. Something happened. Maybe he got high? Saw her? Something else?[/quote]

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