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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did it every occur to you that your intimacy with your wife suffered because you never really wanted to marry her?  Because you wished she was someone else on your wedding day?  Maybe you've never told her about your feelings for this person, but it's pretty clear that you never really loved your wife.  So you keep telling yourself that you have "technically" cheated, and you keep blaming your wife for your unhappiness, and you keep telling yourself that there is anything noble about the way you have chosen to live your life.  Noble would be cutting off your relationship with the other woman.  You want to have your cake and eat it, too.  [/quote] Op isn't eating any cake LOL.  He isn't getting any at home and isn't from his 'one' either. He saw her 15 years ago, then just 2 years ago. I'm guessing 15 years ago was some sort of class reunion, so that's not really seeing her. Then he tried to hook up with her when she was in town for business and that didn't work out because of his morals.  I don't agree with the relationship that is happening, but I do give him props for thinking about his kid and not creating another divorced/broken family situation. I'm divorced and it's a nightmare for my kids. Bringing stuff back and forth, waking up for school and the shirt they wanted to wear is at their other parents house. Asking "where am I this weekend". Kids have it tough and he's trying to at least protect his kid.[/quote]

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