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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ambitious, rich guys now want to end up with their coworkers, not their secretaries. Go to an elite grad school, get a high paying job yourself, land a colleague. Then when your career schedules are too much with kids you can slide back into the cushy role you want.[/quote] +1. [/quote] Another +1, from the kind of guy you want to attract (but happily married). While a few marry hot secretaries, the senior executives at my firm making $$$ mostly marry mid-level executives. I totally get it; these are gorgeous, fit, incredibly bright, driven women. What's not to like. Maybe other men want insipid wives, but the men I know with similar educational backgrounds and career trajectories like smart, ambitious women. It can make for conflict in home life, but there is undeniable chemistry.[/quote] Also, if you can't do this, I agree with others that the best strategy is to hang out where they hang out. [b]That means conferences, ski resorts, and golf courses[/b]. [/quote] The best place is business hotel bars. Ratio is 10-1 men, mostly successful and lonely on business travel. Problem, most are married[/quote] PP here. You're right that most are married (I spend a lot of time in nice hotel bars). Those that aren't are probably long shots for LTRs. Plus, everyone knows what you're doing, and you have more competition (including from escorts). I'm sure it can / does work, but if you take up golf or skiing, and are fit / pretty, you'll stand out in those environments. You don't think guys notice a beautiful woman on a driving range, or a chairlift? Men are generally in good moods and open to meeting people in those environments. In a business bar, he may be working, meeting coworkers, stressed, or at best looking to hook up. Plus, if you pick up golf or skiing, you'll have a massive leg up on other women in that you have an activity to start the relationship with (that he likes).[/quote]
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