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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some of you people don’t get it. It has nothing to do with “saving your kids first if they were hanging on a cliff”, it has to do with making time for the MARRIGE before anything else; essential kid needs aside. Of course you’d SAVE the kids first. But my husbands and my FEELINGS come first. My kids are nurtured and we do fun things with them, but they are along for the ride until they are 18. [/quote] I had selfish parents like you. I barely talk to them today. They are minimal grandparents. Their needs always came first. I think there needs to be a balance but kids get priority to all needs as they are children and only get one childhood. I want them to do the same for their kids so leading by example is important. If it had to do with saving the kids or spouse, I would pick my kids. I hope my husband would do the same. There is no question. Why have kids if they are along for the ride? That is really selfish.[/quote]
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