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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like he's going through a rough time with his mother and somehow thinks finding his dad would provide some sort of answer. As irrational as that idea is, it's still his right to find his bio father. You can try all the arguments you want, but ultimately you have no say in this matter. Butt out. [/quote]
I just don’t want to see him unnecessarily hurt. And for what? He’s a wonderful man despite never knowing his father.

I KNOW it isn’t my choice, but I’m seeing more clearly, and I don’t want him hurt.[/quote]
Give more credit to your husband. [/quote]
You don’t know my husband.[/quote]

We do know one thing about him. He has demonstrated poor judgement by marrying OP.

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Why? Because I know he is easily hurt and then marinates in it for weeks and his mood affects our whole family, and I don’t want to see him hurt by this? I really don’t know what the best thing to do is, that’s why I’m here. I thought the best thing was to help him avoid unnecessary hurt, but now I see that’s not what’s right. [/quote]

What is the unnecessary hurt? Rejection? His bio father might simply not respond to his contact. [b]I know that I would not if I got a message from my hypothetical son[/b]. Disappointment? Not liking the person who is his bio dad?[/quote]

NP here and I too would probably not respond.  That is probably the most likely outcome if for no other reason than the bio dad will probably think it's some kind of scam.  [/quote]

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