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It is his right to do this if he really wants. However, ask him what his goal is. Does he think he will learn something more about himself by doing this? He won't. Is he trying to make his mother angry?

Urge him to sit down, clear his head, and figure out what he hopes to gain from this. He says he doesn't care if he's rejected, but if it happens, he will care.
 He says he really doesn’t know! I’ve tried everything to convince him he doesn’t need this complete stranger for validation. He’s not budging:

[b]He just doesn’t see that you can’t just call a man out of the blue [/b]and drop this bomb and expect to gain anything.   [/quote]

Actually, yes he can. This is his bio dad, and he has a right to reach out to him. Remember, your husband didn't create the situation he finds himself in, his bio parents did.

I am the PP you were responding to--an adopted adult who has chosen not to look for my bio parents. I have enough information to know what I might find, and that's all I need to know. However, I respect others who choose to do this, and your husband has this right. Please respect that, even if you don't agree with it.

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