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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH and I both read this article this morning and discussed it for a few minutes mostly in regard to women losing their desire for sex. I told him that I rarely have the "urge" for sex the way he does but that I always enjoy it when we do. But I couldn't do it 3-4 times a week but 1-2 times is fine. We are both in our early 60's so he didn't raise a complaint. We didn't talk about what would happen if I had no interest in sex at all. But I do know it would be a big problem for him though I know his moral bar is very high. But even with that I'm just not sure what would happen.[/quote]
You would issue him a permanent hall pass because you love him and want to meet his needs.[/quote]

PP here - I don't think I could nor do I think he would take one. We've been married over 35 years and have a very special relationship and yes, sex has been an important part of it. I do believe that sex in some way, shape or form will continue to be a part of our lives until health issues arise which is inevitable. [/quote]
That would be extemely selfish and unloving to declare you no longer want sex therefore he must also be celibate against his will and biology. He would be equally justified to give himself a hall pass. Let’s hope that dilemma never comes. [/quote]

Please read carefully! I didn't say that I would ever declare I no longer want sex. I said that at some point in our lives one of us will likely have health issues that could prevent us from having sex. [/quote]

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