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[quote=Anonymous]How old are his kids? If they'll be out of the house soon, perhaps consider not worrying about it too much, and contributing less to joint finances (per your agreement). If they are young, then something has to give. Either way, you need to contribute less to the joint pot, if what you're giving now is more than what you two agreed on. Or, you can make a new agreement that you can live with. Sounds like some boundaries definitely need to be put in place. You cannot control what your DH does regarding his ex, but you can control your own actions and money. Never let any man control your money! Never. Especially if it means your kids are doing without. No way! You put your agreed amount in the joint pot, and when it's gone he has to figure how to cover the difference for his 2 kids.[/quote]
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