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[quote=Anonymous]OP I think you got yourself into a bad situation and you're trying to change it with minimal impact. Do you guys have one joint account where the household bills come out of? Who is responsible to pay them, and are both of your checks direct deposit into that account? I would think the household should come from the joint . For child's medical, dental and big items that should come from the other parents sole account. At the minimum pay less and keep some money for a yearly vacation. Tell DH the truth. It's not fair to you, or your kids to forego a vacation because his ex wife whines up a good game knowing he will cave. Surely you see what she is doing, and it's working. Or tell him you can't contribute as much because you have to put some away for your own kids. I mean it does work both ways. [/quote]
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