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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, no, no.  I don't accept this PP.  If sex is important to him ensuring access to it should be important to his wife.  If OP were disappointed in DW's unwillingness to, for example, watch the kids so he could attend a religious service to manifest his profound faith then no one would criticize him.  OP did not sign up for near-celibacy.  Most married people don't.  And that is a legitimate desire.  [/quote]

There are people who believe sex is an optional part of marriage, and those who believe it is an essential part of marriage. They will never convince each other, and you sort of know which team you are on.[/quote]

Exactly.  I think that it is a major difference that cannot be reconciled without a lot of devotion and effort by both parties.  I just don't want that kind of union for myself any longer because like many high-libido spouses I have noticed that the most of the sacrifices are being made by me.  The low-libido spouse is often quite comfortable with letting the other spouse wither inside.  They know you won't leave because you love your kids too much.  That is why they don't act like this when just dating.  [/quote]

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