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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the responses.  In terms of direct talk, not an option.  Have talked about it on multiple times (sex/intimacy, not about not caring) and she does the usual break down and cry, I'm not a good wife response with no change at all.  I am hesitant to say it directly becuase the way she is she would take it horribly and it can't be taken back.  Like I said I don't want to make the marriage worse.  I doubt she would cheat as she is a fiercely loyal person in general, and I don't think  I would cheat, but who knows.  Just went home for lunch (I work close) and she is home sick and I honestly didn't really care either way.  Not who I am as a person in general but at this point I can't really muster enough to fake it.    [/quote]

Ok so what is the reason she's given you?  If sex isn't her cup of tea it's still somewhat of a obligation in the marriage. Just like like anything else.  Why can't she meet you half way? 
Going by what you've posted I suspect she's not crazy about sex, probably never was. And like you she can't "muster enough to fake it".  Lots of people feel that way, but a healthy marriage requires compromise. I do things I don't like for my spouse and vice versa.  You can't always put yourself first.

I don't think this is a deal breaker because you have too much positive. I'm really curious what reason she's given you because the crying and bad wife explanation. [/quote]

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