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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, go see a therapist and talk out these feelings. Then if you want to see him, do it with the support of your therapist. He may be recovered and sorry. He may be an asshole. You can't know. You also don't have to see him. He forfeited any rights to your time or attention when he left you at age 8. [/quote] Agree, except for the last part. I agree with the basics of it, but from a human love point of view, you never forfeit your right to love. He may have some love in him for his child that has resurfaced. He has no right to expect her to want to see him and it sounds like he doesnt expect that. So, whether she sees him or not probably won't be based on the notion that he forfeited rights to her time and attention. No simple answers to this one![/quote]
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