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[quote=Anonymous]Haha my therapist 100% supported my getting a tummy tuck so maybe therapy would be good after all. So what if no one hardly sees it. Much like I feel better wearing nice bras and panties, I feel better knowing my outsides look more appealing to me. It's not about men. It's about me.

I think if you're relatively healthy you should do it.

I had a tummy tuck, and was freaking out a little (what if something happened and I was the awful person who left my kids momless just to get rid of 4 lbs of sagging skin). I had never been under anesthesia before either which added to my fear.

But I'm so glad I did it! I feel good about doing something for myself - why not?? Unless you genuinely cannot afford it or are pretty unhealthy, I say start going to consults. Tell dh you're curious what the doctors would suggest and how they see it.

I only did two consults, but I enquired about breasts as well and they measure for sagging - mine weren't sagging, just a bit deflated looking. So I decided to live with that. Maybe getting actual measured values might help? I also opted out of boobs because they only last 20ish years.

Does dh have anxiety or is he overly cautious about life in general? Could you present a detailed plan or picture of how it would go to settle him a bit? Is he insecure and possibly threatened if you look hotter/have more confidence from feeling better about yourself?

You only have one life and if this will help, do it.[/quote]

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