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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, very wise advice. I think I'll enroll in some financial management classes at one of the local commmnity colleges. I think my future husband would appreciate that. I'm not looking for a man-child nor a super wealthy man either. I would like a husband who does invest in his work, our marriage and our family. [/quote] Good idea. But also, consider how you want to raise your kids. Do you enjoy being super frugal and DIY-ing everything? If so, great. If not, then you best be working until your 2nd trimester. SAHW is just not a great idea. Consider what you will do with fertility troubles. You will go out of your mind, totally bonkers, if you don't have a job other than managing a household of two adults. Adoption can be expensive and IVF is too, and there's no guarantee it'll work. So unless you're psyched to do foster care (and I would encourage you to consider it), I would think very hard about quitting your job in anticipation of baby. They come in their own time, not ours. Stay working, live on his income, and save yours. [/quote]
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