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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would agree to that, and then figure out my own exit plan to maximize my own benefit at your expense. Not because that’s what I would always do in the case of divorce, but because you would deserve it for your callous attitude and selfishness. Why give you a heads up when you’ve just treated me so shoddily?

Get your ducks in a row, OP.[/quote]
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Brutal has no place in a marriage, even if the love is gone, and the fact that OP was so anxious to get this word in the title of the post  that she put it in the wrong place is telling. 
But by all means OP keep on thinking that you "won". [/quote]

I didn't win, I very much lost. I am soon to be 34, seriously compromised my career to follow him around on FIVE moves for his career. It will take me years to resurrect my career and I will likely not get to have a family. [/quote]
Why would you say that? Fertility is an individual thing and your age alone is not enough reason to assume you won't get to have a family. Don't drag your feet getting divorced.[/quote]

She's 34, has sacrificed career opportunities after making the bad decision to follow around a guy she finds utterly disgusting, embarrassing, selfish, etc.. and has zero prospects at the moment for love. She can only focus on her career now, which means her prospects for family are diminished. She's right, and smart to recognize it. If she takes responsibility for her part and learns from it sooner rather than later, it'll make her a better person and more likely to attract someone appropriate.

It costs 10K to freeze your eggs and $500 year for store. Another 5K each time you attempt to use those eggs. Insurance doesn't cover it, but if you work for Google, Apple, or Facebook, they'll pay for it up to 20K. Given you're going to play catch-up in your life in many ways, this might be your best chance. [/quote]

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