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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry your husband is cheating on you, OP.

Maybe try working with a therapist to help you see where to place the blame. It’s not randos on the internet.[/quote]

Therapist don't do that. Further, nobody is in an affair. I'm just pointing out facts. There seems to be a lot of folks on here that think marriage is a game.  [/quote]

It's a lot of folks on here that think marriage is an expense account - you got something to say to them?
It's a lot of folks on here that think marriage is the epicenter of the universe and they have no life as a result - you got any advice for them?[/quote]

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It's amazing how this is the only place that if you're faithful - nothing else matters. You are a saint. AND! Cheating and/or extreme abuse is the only legitimate approved reason to divorce if you have kids. Because you know...the kids will die if you divorce.

Must need a lot of oxygen masks up there whilst you flit about the clouds with your angel wings. :roll: [/quote]

Did you think about whether this would happen when you got married? This was a risk and unless the partner is being abusive, you figure it out without being destructive. [/quote]

There is just no way that you know all of the possible scenarios in which one can slowly crumble and die within the confines of marriage that doesn't include this idea that anything short of extreme abuse can somehow be resolved if you simply tried hard enough. First, it takes two. If the other spouse is not willing to do the work, talk about the issue(s) or even acknowledge that there is a problem - then you are stuck. How can you foresee a future that your spouse would treat you with such disdain or contempt - or even ignore you for YEARS with no remorse.

This board is so funny. The most common question asked is "well didn't your dumb *ss know that about your spouse when you married them you dummy!!" You are supposed to know - at oh 24ish how someone will be when they are 38. As if you have a crystal ball and know the person that your partner grows to be and sinks into in their adulthood. You can think you know someone intimately and all the facets but life happens and all the sudden this is not the person you knew - if you ever did at all.

[b]And you're not allowed to be unhappy, unfulfilled, unwanted and want to divorce if you have kids. You're to tow the line.[/b] Until said children are off doing their own adult lives. And maybe you can eek out an apartment on your own at 50 and try to carve out some happiness for yourself before you start complaining about your diabetes.

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According to whom? Divorce if you want to divorce. Better then divorcing when your kids are 22 and destroying their vision of their childhood. And better than cheating for years and having it all come out when they're old enough to understand how much of a turd you are. [/quote]

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