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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you one of the posters who was trying to shame others who considered affairs when their spouse refused sex for years at a time? Grow up and worry about yourself. Keep your own house in order and hopefully you won't have to deal with the issue of infidelity in your marriage- which is the only one you should feel this strongly about.[/quote]
But why not get a divorce or ask for an open marriage? I agree that sex is an integral part of marriage but affairs aren’t just wrong because of the sex but also the deception. [/quote]
A poster yesterday doesn't want to divorce until her children are out of the house and her husband won't have an open marriage. It didn't sound like she planned to have an affair but who could blame her if she did? Well, the Op of this post would, but aside from that most reasonable folks would understand. At the very least they'd understand that it's none of their business and going around declaring people are horrible just makes them look stupid.[/quote]

You cheaters are so manipulative setting up false dichotomies like that. And FWIW I am neither a cheater nor have I been cheated on.

You are describing the phenomenon of wanting to have your cake and eat it to. That poster yesterday didn't want to divorce and her DH didn't want an open marriage so it is ok for her to cheat? What is that? She can cheat or she can divorce. That is the responsible adult choice. [/quote]

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