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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]You’re asking to much. He sounds sweet! Most women would love any intimacy at all after a quiet evening at home. Life isn’t a romance novel. Be grateful you have a faithful sweet guy and great dad with a decent sec life. Men don’t respond to talking more than once or twice so just drop that. Look hot and be enthusiastic about sex whenever the time is right. 
I never initiate with my DH for what it’s worth, I prefer when he’s the tiger, so maybe cut back on that. It can be emasculating if it’s persistent.[/quote]

Not OP but the issue it seems is that her DH does not initiate. She would also prefer him to be the tiger.

OP, I'm in a similar boat. I just think DH is wired differently, sexually, and more closed off/prudish. We've discussed it and he's admitted it but it hasn't fundamentally changed things. One thing is that I've stopped expecting him to do a lot of that stuff. I take things into my own hands, so to speak. I wish there were more passion, but there is at least satisfaction. [/quote]

My point is cutting back on initiating might make him more of a tiger. If it’s just not there for him then that’s another story all together.

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Initiation isn't really an on/off switch. She needs to flirt in a way that provokes a strong initiation. And, it probably has to start with flirtation that provokes a weak initiation and then building on that. [/quote]

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