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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Go to where they were and ask the servers or bartenders what they saw? As a last resort call the woman. A kiss is terrible but definitely not grounds for divorce. [/quote]

Yeah, geez, forget about it. She’s 50 and he was drunk - forget about it. He must be embarrassed. Ask him how he’s going to show his face at work again though.[/quote]

I lean toward this. I mean you know your DH best and know if he's one of those guys that does dumb shit when he's drunk. I cant agree with the "forget about it" part, however. I think you need to find time to have a calm, sober discussion. He needs to answer some tough questions, like, why would he ever have the urge to kiss another woman. I wouldn't be jealous of this woman, unless you know another reason to feel that but I'd be concerned about the behavior. What if next time its the new 30 yr old hot sales associate? And what if she's willing and interested?

Mistakes happen and you sound like you are handling it pretty well but tough conversations can solve underlying issues. Ignoring it will likely lead to another incident.[/quote]

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