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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's me. I don't click with DH's friend wife. Nothing is wrong, I just feel zero connection. I would gladly not join DH but he likes when I am with him. I like his friends, but not their wives.[/quote]

I try not to take it personally because she doesn't have any close friends in our circle of about 20 couples. That said, I try my best to be friendly to her and wouldn't mind being friends, I respect who she is.[/quote]
She doesn’t WANT any friends in YOUR circle. She has enough friends. You obviously want more friends. You sound lonely.[/quote]

"Our circle" is the military speciality we're in. We cannot avoid eachother, we all see each other often. We have to work together on the same mission. The promotions depend on working well together. From a lifestyle standpoint (you can see people's judgement above) we're also isolated from the mainstream. I have friends outside the military, thankfully, but most of us struggle to maintain friendships over moving every 1-3 years. All of the families in our group we're together for about 6 years over 5 moves so we see each other more than our families. [/quote]
Then why refer to her as husbands friends wife...?
You work together? You see her more than your own family? Yet she is your husbands friends wife??? OK[/quote]

You are hell-bent on finding something wrong with whatever OP has to say. Give it a rest. [/quote]

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