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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm like this. DH's friends don't particularly interest me and their wives interested in a 1950s lifestyle interest me even less. I'm polite and don't feel compelled to be more.  [/quote]

None of us live in a 1950s style. In fact ones of only a few couples who both work in the military. We're all very passionate about what we do, common interests. So it's weird to have all that in common and feel like her husband likes me more as a friend than she does.

Someone else had a weird interaction where we were all at a house warming and my husband, her husband, plus a different wife (not me) were in the bedroom looking at decorations. She only saw two of them (husband, other wife) and had this angry look until she saw my husband. So I guess it could be jealousy. She might view all other women as threats regardless of our marriage status. Again, not sure how I can make her feel more confident that I'm not a threat, if it just takes time.[/quote]

Actually just reminded me that when I answered the door to the party she walked right past me to hg someone else. Her husband hugged me. Then later that night she said goodbye to the 4 people we were standing with and walked past me without saying a word. So it's little interactions like that, that have just made me wonder what I'm missing.[/quote]

She's just not interested in being friends with you. It could be that at some point you said/did something that offended her, or it may be that you two just aren't a good personality fit and she's not interested in putting on a show to pretend otherwise. Be pleasant when the two of you are together but otherwise stop trying to force a friendship, because that's only going to make it worse, not better.[/quote]

[b]I would say if she ignores OP while greeting other people, it’s more than not wanting to be friends.[/b][/quote]

That woman has big problems, OP.  [/quote]

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