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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like she is planning on having the baby.  At a minimum, you are going to be be a father and will need to parent regardless if you get back together or not with your ex and need her to allow you to co-parent not contingent on you being back together romantically.  I would say not to rush into marriage.  If I remember correctly from eralier post you hadn’t been dating that long, I thought less than a year.  I almost wonder if you are thinking about getting back together if the equivalent of pre-marital counseling would help.  You were worried about the instafamily but maybe more than it being the loss of this ideal of the never married, no children partner, you were worried about day to day expectations and communication.  Now that you are tied to the ex-gf thru the new baby, you will have to navigate communication and expectations in some fashion so maybe a 3rd party can help see if you are on the same page with parenting and make sure you are communicating well with each other prior to the baby arriving.  It will only get tougher after the baby is born.[/quote]

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