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[quote=Anonymous]deep breath.

First, does she want another child? Is she definite on having the baby? Is it dependent on how you feel?

the way I see it, there are 3 ways this goes down.

1) you guys end up together, giving it a shot, and you have an Insta family plus 1, and it actually works 
2) you don't stay together but you are bound to her and the child for the rest of your life. This will certainly complicate your meeting someone else (that person will now have to be okay with an Insta family on your part), and you will be raising a child in less than ideal circumstances, but if done well, it can be just fine. I think a harder adjustment may be on the step siblings--what will their lives be like with a new baby? and what is their relationship to their dad, etc? 
3) she terminates the pregnancy, this has to be a mutual (or her) decision.

whichever one it ends up being, right now, be there with her and support her. Talk to each other, talk it all out. I hope that you two can come to a good place. [/quote]

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