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Reply to "I don’t want to have a child because I feel like I’m already married to one. "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like there are two issues here. DH sounds like a bit of a man baby in some regards (needs help packing his lunch? boy, bye) but OP also sounds like a control freak/martyr type. [/quote] This. Would it have been great if he jumped right to grocery shopping, unpacking, laundry, and cleaning the kitty litter while OP was sick ...yes. But if he were on his own would he have done any of it right away - likely not. He isn’t going to change in general much less have a freaky Friday experience and become the OP because she is sick. That said, I would not expect OP to make his lunch, do IT support for him and get a separate dinner for him while she is sick and a calm “you are on your own, I’m not feeling well”, rinse, lather and repeat if needed. Add in, “I trust you can come up with something ...” and then let it go. There are strategies to be helpful in not enabling someone to be helpless.[/quote]
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