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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it's entirely possible she's being genuine, that it truly was a mistake and she's upset you were inadvertently excluded. Or it could be that she didn't want to invite you for whatever reason (including perhaps not valuing the friendship the same way you do), and now is trying to cover her tracks. Unless there are other big clues you haven't shared that point in a particular direction, I think is this one where I would choose to be generous of spirit, text back, "I completely understand, hope you had a great shower!" but then pay attention to how the friendship goes after that. If she still seems like an engaged friend, give her credit for a mistake. If it seems like there's increasing distance, then probably the friendship is fading and the shower invitation is a symptom rather than the cause of the demise. You won't have lost anything by being kind in this moment, though.[/quote]
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