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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I only see the stigma attached in this area, TBH.

People in this area love to put on airs and live beyond their means.

To quote my son's friend, whose mother would die of shame if she heard what he said, "I'm not allowed to have a job because my mom says it makes us look poor.  I think we are secretly poor or why else would our AMEX bill be $30k?  I saw it once and it said it's going to take them 25 years to pay it off.  That's insane!"

Even among my kid's friend's parents, fast food jobs are not acceptable.  Working at the fro yo shop or Coldstone?  Fine.  Working retail is fine as long as it's not Walmart.  The best jobs are those that can bolster the kid's academic resume.  My daughter's friend has an internship at her mom's law firm with some crazy title and bullet points for all of the impressive things she helps do, but all she really does is redact documents and shred.   [/quote]

It's not just this area. It's any well to do area. Here, Westchester County NY; Bergen County NJ; Princeton NJ area, Main Line Pa. etc.

It's not about why is there shame to working now, it's -- why is there shame to working if you live in a wealthy area. And the answer is-- bc parents act like other parents who "make" their kids work can't properly provide.[/quote]

Affluent kids don't need to work, but I live in a middle class/upper middle class area in California and teens routinely work at fast food restaurants, pizza joints, as lifeguards, in shops etc. Maybe it's a regional economic thing. [/quote]

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