Reply to I ran into a neighbor with someone who wasn't his wife

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "I ran into a neighbor with someone who wasn't his wife "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]TBH I'm surprised by the number of people who wouldn't say something.  She deserves to know the kind of guy she's married to.  I'd tell her.  And if the tables were turned I'd hope to hell someone would tell me.[/quote]

Manage to run into her as soon as you can. Say how you saw her husband out at restaurant X on night Y (be specific with the location and date) and how "I was sorry to miss seeing you there too but Bill explained it was a work dinner. I didn't get to meet the coworker he was with. Next time he's got a work event in the evening or on a weekend, let me know if you want to get together for" a drink, or bring the kids over and we'll watch a movie, whatever works.

She should realize that he was not wherever he claimed to her he was at that time.

I normally would not advocate that kind of subterfuge if she were a friend of yours--I'd say directly, I saw Bill at X on date Y but not you and he was with a woman he said was a coworker; what's up? -- but as it seems she isn't close enough that you feel you can flat-out say her husband appeared to be out kissing another woman, then I'd do the innocent "Saw Bill out with a coworker but didn't meet her" thing. With the emphasis on "her."[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics