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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless I was friends with her, I wouldn't say anything directly. At least not immediately.

However, if I did find myself in conversation with her, I'd probably ask something that would strongly imply that I assumed their marriage was an open one. And then see if she sweeps it under the rug or acts surprised and asks me what I mean. So basically act like I'm MYOB but really letting her know in a nice way. And I'd be the shocked one, acting like of course I just assumed it was an open marriage since he was kissing a woman on the lips repeatedly in a restaurant, hope I didn't get anyone into trouble, etc.

But I would definitely want to know, and so I'd not feel good acting like everything was fine with her, just in case it's not.[/quote]

It’s hard to know who would want to know, who’s doesnt want to know, and who already knows and made their decision to stay.  Giving the person the option to sweep it under the rug or not and allowing the option that it’s an open marriage and what works for them gives the flexibility to meet all different scenarios.

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