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[quote=Anonymous]OP, two things. First, find your own happiness, it often leads to better relationships all around. Second, tell your husband how you feel - not by attacking him, but by explaining the things that make you feel loved. The "love language" stuff isn't total BS - people do need different things. If your husband grew up in a house where love was spread with gifts, not time, then he might not think anything of spending a lot of time golfing. However, if you had a single mom, then maybe time is all you want. Just make that clear. Then, if you're happy with yourself, and he still isn't willing to give you what you need, you can make a decision about your future. But don't do it without trying to explain things to him. My husband and I feel loved in different ways, so we both have to try to remember what the other person needs and not just give what we would want. We aren't always successful, but just trying means a lot.[/quote]
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