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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's how they holistically build up the chemistry outside of the bedroom. Includes building a strong relationship, trust, caring in small ways, genuine love that culminates in lasting intimacy. [/quote] how does this square with women who still pine for the abusive narcissist ex?[/quote] Does it matter? Why are you worried about women who are still pining over abusive narcissistic exes? Find someone without baggage. [/quote] NP - it's a valid question and if you have nothing to offer, just skip it instead of mouthing off.[/quote] +1. It's valid because there is a danger that people are saying what they want to believe instead of what is actually true. I wouldn't want to believe that someone mistreating me gets me off. But sex is weird and that may be how it works. [/quote] forget about pining why do women even stay with these guys in the first place after knowing they are/were narcissists? it couldn't be about the emotional connection, the trust, the caring, etc. that they want from DHs now, so what is it? genuinely curious/confused.[/quote] For me it was the fact that I was raised by a Narc and I thought it was normal to be undermined, criticised, gaslit etc in relationships. Also remember they frog boil you...start out slow then turn up the heat.[/quote]
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